| the 5th Layer of Personality: "symptoms and painful events" |
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All children get childhood wounds. This is true no matter how loving and careful their parents may be. In this, the fifth layer of personality, then, these BLocks will prevent children from consciously experiencing life in the affected life areas. Over time, these selective inabilities to experience life will often manifest as visible suffering, a condition commonly called, "having symptoms." Please note though, that despite the fact that the symptoms of many BLocks will become visible, many, many other BLocks will reamin hidden; asymptomatic. For non medical people, this means people often can have BLocks which, in ordinary life circumstances, exhibit no symptoms. Of course, in many cases, a trained Emergence Practitioner will be able to find signs present, given they suspect a BLock. How? We define "wounds" differently, as the "missing beauty" rather than as the "visible suffering." Even for Emergence Pratitioners though, sometimes, the eveidence of a BLock is so hidden, there simply are no visible symptoms, except in cases wherein the person directly experiences the wounding stage itself. When there are "symptoms," what do they look like? In general, symptoms are any visible suffering, including suffering which seems to come out of no where. Thus, many symptoms can not be logically connected to what appears to be a "cause." For instance, if a toddler falls down a flight of stairs, afterwards, he or she may become overly cautious when approaching stairs, and this is logical. On the other hand, children who witness another child fall down stairs may also begin to exhibit these symptoms, if, in the course of their witnessing, the witnessing child gets startled. Equally possible is the idea that a child may fall down stairs and
not get a BLock. It simply isn't. My point? Logic can never accurately predict when and where a person will get
blocked, let alone what the symptoms of this BLock will look like.
And even in cases wherein it may seem logically obvious as to where
the symptoms are coming from, in all cases, it is simply wiser to
use these visible symptoms for what they do best; for recreating
the stage of an injury so as to help this person to heal the BLock. For example, I recently worked with a woman who has suffered for years from being overweight. Our first wounding stage? Her scale. In fact, in our first session in and around her weight, I had her bring in her scale and used her "overreactions" to guide our work. Did I heal her injury by sessions end? Actually, no. But by sessions ends, I had helped her to open the door consciously on what was certainly one of the main impediments to her seeing the beauty in managing her weight. Another example of how logic can not be used to understand symptoms
would be a six year old who suffers an incident with a mean, second
grade teacher. Then, too, the child's symptoms may also manifest as something less
related but still somewhat logically connected to the incident; clinginess
and nervousness just before having to leave for the school bus. What else can be found in this layer? Certainly, things people normally consider symptoms, such as food and weight problems, addictions, learning difficulties, repeated physical illnesses, etc. Equally impoteant though is the class of symptoms which manifest as the absence of reaction to life situations, such as an absence of reaction when being given love for example, going blank when being given a compliment. Or the person may go blank when addressed in a specific tone of voice or when witnessing a certain facial expression. Or when sitting in a classroom even with the kindest of teachers. All these things, both the visible suffering and the missing experiences,
are peoples' Layer 5 content, the visible evidence people
have incurred personality BLocks, meaning that in the layer beneath
Layer 5, these people have incurred blocked abilities to stay conscious
in specific life areas which over time, manifest as symptoms. |
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| the 5th Layer of Personality: "symptoms and painful events" |
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| Appears at Age? |
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birth, through rest of life |
| Personal Consciousness Age? |
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mostly "Why" (age 2 - 7) |
| Sense of Connection? |
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only to my symptoms ("I can't thing of anything else.") |
| Sense of Aloneness? |
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"I feel so alone at times,
I can't get out of bed" |
| Sense of Blame? |
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"medical" blame |
| Who Do You Blame? |
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the symptoms ("my cancer.") the "painful event" ("my accident.") |
| Who Should Be Punished? |
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whomever or whatever caused these symptoms
and or painful events |
| Who Deserves Help? |
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whomever or whatever is (was / will
be) experiencing symptoms whomever or whatever is (was / will be) experiencing painful events |
| Type of Emergence? |
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medical I see the beauty (purpose; loving meaning) in my symptoms "My symptoms are a part of me; a part which deserves love too." |
| Type of Blamelessness? |
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We are all blameless for: our symptoms are not our fault ("I didn't cause my cancer no matter how I treated my health. Neither did anyone else cause it.") our painful events are not our faults ("I didn't cause my rape, no matter how I was dressed.") |
| Urges - Inner Life? (experiential urges) |
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BLocks begin to significantly affect
health |
| Urges - Outer Life? (behavioral urges) |
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suffering appears to come from no where |
| "Aloneness" as a "Drive" |
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reliving "moments of startling
aloneness" causes suffering (time is perceived as a single, painful moment) |
| What We Think and Feel? (realms) |
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"Realm of Visible Suffering" scared, guilty, concerned, confused, blank, frightened |
| What Do We Look Like? (roles) |
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drink too much alcohol ("No harm in having a little pick-me-up once in a while.") exhibit phobias and illogical fears ("I can't look down from high places.") suffer anxiety attacks ("I tremble when I go to the supermarket.") exhibit clumsiness and being accident prone ("I'm bad at sports.") get cancers, heart problems, and other medical symptoms go blank in learning situations ("I don't know why I can't seem to learn to multiply.") over react to ordinary life situations ("I hate it when you ... ") under react to violent situations ("I feel calm when I see my parents screaming at each other.") eat when not hungry; have no appetite; not taste food ignore obvious physical dangers despite prior injury ("Calm down. I'm not driving that fast.") feel the pressure of no choices in normal life circumstances ("I had no choice. I had to yell at her.") |
| Introduction | Layer 10 | Layer 9 | birth moment | layer 8 | layer 7 |
| Layer 6 | Layer 5 | Layer 4 | Layer 3 | Layer 2 | Layer 1 |
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the 5th Layer of Personality: "symptoms and painful
events"
© 2002, Steven Paglierani. All rights reserved